Most parents get upset when their babies cry. This is a natural reaction. Your baby’s crying makes you want to take care of her. Try to respond quickly to her first cries before she gets so upset that you can’t calm her easily. All new babies have fussy times.
Often these times occur in the early or late evening. Babies cry when they’re hungry, Overstimulated, tired, or uncomfortable. As your baby grows older, this new-born fussiness will end.
Try these suggestions to help soothe your new-born baby
Feed your babies:
Babies feed often. It might seem to you since she last fed, but it a long time to her. If she’s not interesting in eating try letting her suck on your finger.
She may need to burp, so try that too.
Make sure your baby isn‘t too warm or too cold.
Also, check to see if she needs a diaper change.
Swaddle or wrap your baby in a big, lightweight baby blanket. This may help her feel more secure. It will also remind her of being held snugly inside you during pregnancy.
Cuddle and hold her against your chest.
She may like hearing the sound of your heartbeat. Talking or singing to her may help.
Some parents make shhhh sounds near their baby’s ear. (This reminds babies of the sounds they heard in the womb.)
Use motion
For example:
- Hold her and sway from side to side.
- Walk around with her in a front pack or sling
- Hold her in your arms as you gently bounce for several minutes.
Try bouncing while standing or while sitting on a bed or exercise ball. - Sit in a rocking chair and rock back and forth.
- Take her outside for a stroller ride. A car ride may also help your baby fall asleep.
- Put her in a baby swing for a while. Make sure her head is supported as she gently swings.
If she seems gassy or needs to burp, try holding her in a position that puts pressure on her tummy.
For example:
- Burp her by having her belly on your shoulder.
- Sit down and lay her on her tummy across your lap.
Gently pat her back and see if she burps or passes gas. - Hold her on your arm with her facing away from you. Gently sway back and forth to comfort her.
Choose one soothing method and use it for a while.
Try not to overstimulate her by quickly changing from one method to another.
If she continues to cry, try another technique. Hopefully you’ll find the one that works. With time and practices you’ll become better at comforting your baby.
If nothing seems to calm her and you are losing your temper, take a short break.
If you have help someone else try to comfort her. If not, put your baby down safely in her bed or car seat for 5—10 you calm down. Never shake or hurt your treat her roughly.
Call someone (a friend or relative) to help you. Tell the person you need a break.